Parents Oh! Parents
I was browsing through the Internet... and I got to say.. Internet is one great staff. You just can't get enough from the Internet. Okay, what made me search for this goes like this. I was watching Burlesque, it was a nice movie indeed. There were a few sex scenes and I was watching it all through. Well I said it was a nice movie, it's the dance moves and the voice that rocks. Not the sex scenes. Then she asked me to go upstairs just to not let me watch. But I refused to go away. Does she know I'm 18? Does she know I know so much about the whole adult thing? I bet she thinks I am a kid who knows nothing about adulthood. Believe me, I know more than you think. You'll be surprised.
Go on... and read. It's gonna be an interesting one about what I researched on.
Thanks parents for sending me to this school, where I got all the unnecessary information, learned all bad words, and worst part, being exposed.
You see, sending a child to a proper school is really truly important. Don't count the kilometer, if you do, this is what you get. Too exposed and getting info too fast. But still, whether a child is sent to the most brilliant school, he or she soon will find out something that you supposed to talk to them about. 'The Talk'...
I just wanna say that, all parents, you can't hide all the bad things from your child. They will learn it sooner or later. But don't worry, good kids learn bad words but don't use it. Like me. I don't say FUCK to anyone. I just write WTF. I've never say FUCK when talking, never. Really, teens can find any info they want from just anywhere... When you don't explain to them, they will find the answer themselves. So since the Internet is available... there you have it. There will be friends too. You'll never always meet good people in life. So, you really don't want them to find the answers themselves, like how I did.
Go on... and read. It's gonna be an interesting one about what I researched on.
Excuses Why Parents Don't Have "The Talk" Vs. Why They Should
Excuse- Oh, I can't talk to my daughter/son, I'm a man/woman, and it wouldn't be right for me to talk to the opposite sex.
Truth- Someone has got to talk, and you may have information from another perspective as a parent of the opposite sex of your child. Also, it is not always wrong to bring in other family members of the same sex as your child to talk, like an uncle or aunt.
Excuse- My child would never be involved in sexual activity.
Truth- You have no idea what influences your child receives at school, or friend's houses, or even on the TV. No one's child is immune to the pressures facing teens today to be involved in sexual activity.
Excuse- My child doesn't know anything about sex, and if I talk to my child, he/she may be intrigued to engage in sexual activity.
Truth- Your child probably already knows more than you think, just from all the information that is out there through the Internet, music, TV, friends, and more. You most likely will not be giving them information that they don't already have. You will, however, be opening communication and creating trust and honesty. Also, no kid is going to want to go out and have sex after hearing about it from his/her parent. Who wants to go out and do things when a big picture of his/her parent is staring them in the face, explaining sex and the decisions he/she will have to make.
Truth- Someone has got to talk, and you may have information from another perspective as a parent of the opposite sex of your child. Also, it is not always wrong to bring in other family members of the same sex as your child to talk, like an uncle or aunt.
Excuse- My child would never be involved in sexual activity.
Truth- You have no idea what influences your child receives at school, or friend's houses, or even on the TV. No one's child is immune to the pressures facing teens today to be involved in sexual activity.
Excuse- My child doesn't know anything about sex, and if I talk to my child, he/she may be intrigued to engage in sexual activity.
Truth- Your child probably already knows more than you think, just from all the information that is out there through the Internet, music, TV, friends, and more. You most likely will not be giving them information that they don't already have. You will, however, be opening communication and creating trust and honesty. Also, no kid is going to want to go out and have sex after hearing about it from his/her parent. Who wants to go out and do things when a big picture of his/her parent is staring them in the face, explaining sex and the decisions he/she will have to make.
Thanks parents for sending me to this school, where I got all the unnecessary information, learned all bad words, and worst part, being exposed.
You see, sending a child to a proper school is really truly important. Don't count the kilometer, if you do, this is what you get. Too exposed and getting info too fast. But still, whether a child is sent to the most brilliant school, he or she soon will find out something that you supposed to talk to them about. 'The Talk'...
I just wanna say that, all parents, you can't hide all the bad things from your child. They will learn it sooner or later. But don't worry, good kids learn bad words but don't use it. Like me. I don't say FUCK to anyone. I just write WTF. I've never say FUCK when talking, never. Really, teens can find any info they want from just anywhere... When you don't explain to them, they will find the answer themselves. So since the Internet is available... there you have it. There will be friends too. You'll never always meet good people in life. So, you really don't want them to find the answers themselves, like how I did.
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